Date Everything: How To Realize Objects

June 29, 2025

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What Happens When You Realize an Object?

All the Dateables’ Realization Recipes

Unlike most dating sim games, Date Everything! features a more focused story that drives the narrative forward. There’s some mystery and intrigue, which is nice, because some dateables are more interesting than others.

Once you reach a certain point in the game, you can do something called “realizing objects,” which does pretty much what it sounds like: make objects into real people. There can be a bit of nuance to this, so don’t think you’ll be able to just go around and make everyone into a real person willy-nilly.

This guide should help you understand how to realize objects and what the results will be. I’ll also have a nice list filled with all the dateable requirements to be realized, so if you’re looking for someone specific, it shouldn’t be too tough.

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How to Realize Objects

Date Everything Realization Realizing objects

Once you’ve met about half of the dateables in the game or gotten about 20 of their endings, you’ll receive some messages from your friend tinfoilhat. He’ll tell you that something weird is going on with the glasses that he needs to investigate.

About two days later, he’ll tell you about realizing objects and provide you with the necessary recipes to complete this process. To actually realize the objects, you’ll need to meet certain SPECS requirements, which means you’ll have to get a lot of endings to acquire the necessary SPECS points.

In case you hadn’t noticed, you’ll earn SPECS points every time you get an ending with a character, no matter what that ending is.

Each object is a bit different and will require a different number of SPECS points to realize, but regardless, you probably won’t be doing this until the very end of the game. You can always check the amount needed from the Date-a-Dex menu if you’ve found that particular dateable.

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What Happens When You Realize an Object?

Date Everything Realization What Happens

When you realize an object, for lack of a better term, they leave. They become real people and leave the house, going out into the world to pursue their goals and dreams.

This is the true ending for each dateable, as many of them wish to have experiences outside the house. No matter what ending you have with them, you can still realize them, even if they hate you.

They do leave the house, meaning you can no longer chat with them or see them. Think carefully about who you want to realize, because once you do, they’re gone for good.

Some of them may have “Unfurnished business” with other objects, so you may need to progress with the other objects before moving on. Skylar will show up and give you the low down on who you still need to speak to, though, so don’t worry too much about figuring that out.

You should not, under any circumstances, realize Skylar first. When you realize Skylar, you end the game as the glasses are no longer glasses.

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All the Dateables’ Realization Recipes

With so many dateables, it can be a daunting task to realize all of them. The biggest blessing is that once your stats are high enough, there’s really nothing stopping you from realizing them one after the other.

Again, you should be careful about realizing dateables as that ends their time in your home. If you’re ready to set them free, you can use this table to figure out exactly how many SPECS points you need for each dateable.

Dateable	Smarts	Poise	Empathy	Charm	Sass
Skylar	60	60	60	40	30
Phonecia	30		100	30	90
Wallace	20	100	80	50
Florence	20	50	90	50	20
Celia	20	50	90	50	20
Stella	20	50	90	50	20
Dorian	75	100	75
Wyndolan	45	55	85	35	30
Curt and Rod	40	85		40	85
Shelley	50	50	50	50	50
Abel	65		75	65	40
Chairemi	70	70		70	40
Lux		50		100	100
Hector	25	35	85	75	30
Prissy	65	80	30	20	55
Timothy	90	15	45	65	35
Artt	100		100	50
River	45	45	45	65	50
Eddie/Volt	65		85	15	85
Koa	10	80	100	40	20
Dolly	100		70		80
Dante		50		100	100
Telly	40	45	50	15	100
Connie	75	100	25	10	45
Keyes	85	85	20	35	25
Gaia	85	20	65	20	60
Captain Jaques		90		90	75
Parker	10	10	50	80	100
Mateo	5	45	100	100
Tina	80	60	40	60	80
Beverly	60	60		60	70
Mitchell	75	25	30	70	50
Cabrizzio	60	50	40	100
Sinclair					5
Freddy	45	65	20	40	80
Stefan	90	50	80	15	15
Luke Nukem	80	80	80	15	15
Miranda			70	90	90
Dishy	100			50	100
Daisuke	10	100	90	25	25
Friar Errol	70	70	70	40
Kopi	80	15	85	60	10
Cam	70	80	80	10	10
I, Ronaldi	75	20	55	50	50
Amir	20	40	60	80	50
Jean-Loo Pissoir	50	100			100
Johnny Splash		75	100	50	25
Bathsheba		40	60	50	100
Rebel		70	40	40	100
Barry Styles		50	90	20	90
Tyrell	50	25	80	60	35
Farya	100		75	75
Dasha	35	100	25	35	55
Jerry	10	55	100	65	20
Penelope	80	20	70	40	40
Mac	90	20	70	30	40
Willi	70	40	25	60	55
Lyric	100	40		40	70
Rongomaiwhenua	80	70	60	40
Chance	80		60	80	30
Maggie	100	45		75	30
Winnifred	80	20	55	60	35
Rainey	80	20	70	30	50
Jon	80	20	70	30	50
Arma	80	80	65		25
Betty			100	75	75
Diana	65	65	65	55
Deenah	1	1	1	1	1
Ben-Hwa		100		50	100
Hero-Hime	35	65	35	65	50
Teddy		20	90	90	50
Hanks		50		100	100
Washford	15	100	100	10	25
Drysdale	85			90	75
Harper	50	70	25	55	50
Dirk/Clarence	80			80	90
Tydus	90	95	20	40	5
Hoove	70	20	70	70	20
Bobby Pin	40	40	40	65	65
Kristoff	70	100	80
Dunk	30	30	70	80	40
Fantina	25	25	50	80	70
Stepford	65	70	10	90	15
Tony	20	50	40	60	80
Beau	60	90		70	30
Keith	50	50	50	50	50
Bodhi	25	15	10	100	100
Vaughn	50	25	80	60	35
Sophia	30	85	20	15	100
Monique	80	80		80	10
Lady Memoria		80	80	30	60
Holly	60	60	60	40	30
Airyn	65	100	85
Textbox-Chan	95	5	100		50
Sassy Chap	45	30	30	45	100
Zoey	5	70	70	75	30
Shadowlord	70	60	40	10	70
Doug	20	100	30	20	80
Nightmare	45	100	35	70
Reggie	80	80			90
Lucinda	1	1	1	1	1
Mikey	100	100	100	100	100

Included in this list are Lucinda and Mike, who are both DLC characters obtained by owning the deluxe version of the game.

Date Everything is a bit of a peculiar game when it comes to dating sims, but in a way, that’s what gives it so much charm. From dating the devs to a bobby pin, there really isn’t much you can’t date.

There are a few endings to get, so if you’re looking to be an achievement hunter, you may want to buckle in since you’ll be playing this for a bit.